To the parents, they need to change their perspectives towards their sons and daughters.
Dowry which is considered bad or evil in this society(or at least created an image like that) and has also brought changes in the minds of men to not ask for dowry from girl's parents is now being asked by the girl herself. They are just asking for the dowry with a different name. This episode concluded with two chief guests joining the show who along with Gopinath put across their points that education has not brought any change in the minds for these girls. Few mothers even tried to defend their sons by saying that they don't want their sons to be debt-ridden just because of their daughter's marriage. They even tried to convince their daughters who were not at all in the mindset of reconsidering their demands. They told that their daughter's demands were way higher than what they have expected and it would be very difficult (and for some impossible) to fulfill their demands. A girl even said that the groom should arrive in a helicopter or something which is also quite a legitimate wish.īut this was just one side of the story but on the other side, their mothers looked bewildered after hearing those demands. So the amount of money their parents spend on their son's education, the same amount of money has to be spent on their daughter's marriage. Some answers were logical like some said that they were not allowed to choose their education as per their wish but their brothers were allowed to study engineering or medicine.
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Some answers were so egoistic and illogical, like one of them even said that if she feels insecure then she will brag about her dowry to their in-laws and in case if she had a misunderstanding or gets into a fight with her future husband then she can always brag about her own property or house and even if she broke her TV in anger then she can justify it by saying that the TV was given to her as a dowry and she has all the rights in the world to break it.
It seemed like none of them had compassion towards their parents or siblings. When they were questioned that whether their parents can afford such a wedding, they had a very simple answer that they would not mind if their parents or their brothers get debt-ridden because of their wedding. They were like I want my wedding to be this much grand, I want this share of the property, I want this much of gold jewelry, I want this much of cash in my account and all of them were very particular and adamant on their demands.
Some wanted to show off in front of their relatives. Most of them were so much into extracting money and property from their parents that they did not even think once from their parents perspective. A few asked for shares in the property while others demanded a huge amount of golden jewelry, sarees, cash and also a few asked for grand weddings, really grand like film stars and some demanded unconventional weddings. The episode starts with Gopinath asking the young girls about their demands for their marriage and we get to hear some interesting and ambitious answers from the girls. Out of which, one was the episode where Young girls lay their demands as to what their parents should provide as dowry and their mothers try to defend themselves by bringing in their real-world perspectives. I am not a regular watcher of this show but recently an episode of this show took the social media by storm which persuaded me to watch a few episodes. Since many social issues are discussed in this show, it has a good number of followers and Television Rating Point is also quite good. In this Talk Show, host Gopinath puts a social issue in front of people and tries to conclude on the topic based on their opinions. There is a well-known Tamil Talk Show called Neeya-Naana which is aired on a popular Television channel.